Dear Enchantress,
By Shane Kulman
As the new year approaches, I’m feeling the buzz of fresh energy and endless possibilities, but I also find it overwhelming. I want to harness this momentum and make real changes in my life, but I don’t know where to start or how to stay consistent. There are so many goals I’d like to set, from personal growth to career success, but I worry about taking on too much or losing steam as the year progresses. How can I balance my excitement with a realistic approach? Are there any rituals or practices that can help me stay focused and aligned?
Sincerely,
Ready to Begin
Dear Ready to Begin,
The new year is like stepping through a secret garden gate into a realm of infinite possibilities. The excitement you feel is the enchanting energy of fresh beginnings calling your name! It’s a great start for momentum, AND the biggest key is to CELEBRATE each tiny step. You know what happens to most people; unfulfilled expectations, and the big, big desires that are not sustainable. If you build using tiny stones CONSISTENTLY, you’ll have the house; if you bring in the big boulders to start, it’s rare you can keep going at that pace.
It can be overwhelming to decide where to scatter your magical seeds. Your thoughts are as important as your actions, and ACTIONS are the most important. And if you read anything of mine, set your intention. Here are some rituals you can do right away (it doesn’t have to be immediately on the first of January).
First, conjure clarity. Light a candle, take a deep breath, and reflect on what truly sets your heart alight. Rather than crafting a scroll of endless resolutions, focus on one or two core areas of your life that beckon your attention. Ask yourself: What would make my spirit soar and my soul feel fulfilled at the end of 2025? Perhaps it’s deepening connections, illuminating your career path, or nurturing your inner well-being. These priorities will serve as your compass in this enchanted journey.
Once your focus is clear, create a vision that sparkles with intention. Close your eyes and vividly imagine your dream life as if it already exists. How does it feel? This is about more than specific goals; it’s about connecting with the essence of what you desire. If career growth is your goal, tune into feelings of empowerment, creativity, and purpose. When your vision is steeped in how you want to feel, it becomes an alluring beacon rather than an overwhelming checklist.
Now, let’s talk about enchanting your consistency spell. Break your vision into small, manageable steps. The magic lies not in doing everything all at once, but in weaving a steady rhythm of progress into your life. Commit to a few simple actions each week or month that align with your priorities. For instance, if personal growth calls to you, perhaps you’ll explore one transformative book a month or attend a workshop each season. Small, consistent steps are the alchemy of lasting transformation.
To guard against burnout, infuse your days with rituals that replenish your energy and keep your magic alive. Start your mornings with a grounding practice, like journaling or meditating under the soft glow of dawn. Take moonlit walks or set aside moments for quiet reflection. Create monthly “enchantment check-ins” to celebrate your wins, refine your path, and realign with your vision.
Finally, remember this: growth is never a straight path, and even the most enchanting journeys have twists and turns. Give yourself permission to pause, recalibrate, and rest when needed. Trust that every step, whether graceful or faltering, is part of your magical story.
Your excitement is the spark of transformation. With clarity, consistency, and compassion, you can weave the New Year’s energy into a masterpiece of joy and fulfillment.
Wishing you enchanted lasting energy!
Enchantress Shane
If you want to ask Shane a question, please do so at love@enchantedembodiment.com. If you’d like to participate in the improv workshop weekend, get on it ASAP.
